Mad Like Alyce

When You Can Only Pick Three… The Importance of Self Care

I recently read an article from Inc. titled Work. Sleep, Family, Fitness, or Friends: Pick Three. While it was written to describe the struggles of entrepreneurs dilemma, it really spoke to me with my current dilemma with my chronic pain flare up. The concept of the article is that it impossible to do all of these successfully and that you have to pick your three most important areas if you want to excel.

The Importance of Self Care

It was reading this article that made me realize that it didn’t say anything about the energy it requires to take care of your self… and I think that is a trap that those of us with, and even those without, chronic pain often fall into. We may be doing well just choosing three…. for awhile. But the reality is we all need to focus on taking care of yourself. Sometimes that IS fitness, or getting more sleep. But often, our priorities get out of wack and we let one of the most important of all of them go to the wayside and even feel like failures for not being able to do more.

Be the Turtle Even If You are the Hare

Timely as we approach Easter, but I have to reference the Turtle and the Hare. We all know the story; slow and steady wins the race. But when you are the hare and always wanting to run at full speed, it is so freaking hard to accept that you really do have to take it one day at a time, and if you can only manage work, self care, and sleep and nothing else, its ok. Thats how you slowly build up your energy and allow yourself to heal.

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Hi! I'm Alyce.
Welcome to my journey towards living a happier and healthier life while living with PTSD and chronic pain... and never letting it keep me from my passion for Halloween, cooking, and way too many DIY projects... all at the same time!

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  • Teacups in the afternoon sun. ☀️ if only it was as warm out as it looks! #timefortea #aliceinwonderland #aliceinwonderlandparty #madteaparty
  • It's not a proper tea party without treats! Check out how to make your very own macaroons on the blog now, and I should FINALLY have my first tea party post up soon! #thisclose #aliceinwonderlandparty #madteaparty #macaroons #cupcakes #aliceinwonderland
  • For as much trouble as those chairs were to pain, re-upholster, and transport, they sure look cute in these photos! I've got a DIY tutorial in the works so you can make your very own mad tea party dining set 😜 #aliceinwonderlandparty #aliceinwonderland #madteaparty #timefortea #diy #diyfurnituremakeover
  • It's nearly time for tea! Finally getting through enough photos to move to writing the posts... coming very very soon! #timefortea #madteaparty #aliceinwonderland #aliceinwonderlandparty
  • I can't believe I made these myself! If you have ever wanted to learn how to make macaroons but we're too intimidated to give it a go, I highly recommend just diving in! After 4 batches, I finally pulled off some perfect little macaroon shells (not pictured). Regardless if they look perfect or not, they taste amazing! #macaroons #baking #amateurbaker #delicious
  • I never could stomach the idea of destroying a book for decoration when they are so perfect on their own! Today took more out of me than I anticipated, so nothing on the blog just yet, but soon!
  • Tea anyone? This setup under a canopy of trees was so lovely! #timefortea #madasahatter #madteaparty #aliceinwonderlandparty #aliceinwonderland
  • I think I could actually pull off going blonde! Goes to show how a quality wig makes all the difference in a costume and this one from @rockstarwigs is fantastic! #aliceinwonderland #madteaparty #madasahatter #timefortea
  • Decided to put my Harry Potter posts on the back burner and start sharing my Alice in Wonderland mad tea party! I'm just too excited to hold these back any longer! #aliceinwonderland #madteaparty #madasahatter #timefortea

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